i ws soo aggravated. D7 still assumed H was picking her up. I told he wasn't but since HE didnt tell her she wouldn't believe me.
I saw D7 from across the parking lot waiting for him. I walked over and asked her teacher what was she doing ..I waitted and went back to my class.
I thought MAYBE he will come. Well he didnt. I walked up and she said daddy is late! I told her daddy wasnt coming today and it was ok. She cried. She crushed my heart.
So later she said daddy never comes.I never see him.
I got aggravated.
I texted him: I am not trying to tell you what to do, but next time tell her u are not picking her up.
H responded: I told her I would see her at practice.
i didn't know this. Practice was canceled. I texted him that and then he called.
I told him what happened with D7 and his response" that isnt my fault" I said I wasnt blaming him and I just wanted him to know how she felt.
H responded again "That is neither your fault or mine. She is 7 yrs old, I told her and it isnt my fault she didnt understand."
I told H AGAIN im not blaming him(which I WASN"T ) and just wanted him to know what D7 said.
So he said he wasnt going to praactice since it was cancelled.
He just said Ill see her tom. and we hung up.
So I thought since he didnt spend any time with her last week(remember , he was on vaacation) that he could pick her up today. Remember , the reason he couldnt was because he had to work overtime. Well, he didnt.
So I called him back and suggested he pick her up for dinner. Silence then uh ok.
i said OOkay?? H responded : WEll, I do have thing s I wanted to do... I said..You know what, do them. H:Ok I hung up.
He didnt hear ANYTHING I said. He DIDNT care.
He can be inconsistent with me , but when it hurts my daughter..grrrrrrrr
