Sounds a lot like my situation and many others on here. I am new myself, but definately read the books. But be careful, if you are like me, it will light a fire and you will want to make things happen. I am trying not to do anything forward right now. So take it slow.

Good luck and keep reading what people post. There are tons of good things said and advice.

Ken
Me: 37
Her: 38
Son: 8 (spina bifida)
Son:2
M 6/24/1994
S 1/21/2008
Original Sitch