You guys are right on so many points. I don't know if me moving out makes a difference in the eyes of the law (yes I will talk to a lawyer) for the house and custody. It will all be temporary until we iron things out with the mediator who is also a lawyer. He will also put toether the D papers.....all in due time and then we will have a working agreement (or separation agreement). Things have not neccesarilly taken a turn for the worst but I feel I need to do this. This has been going on for a few months and my W wants her independance. Well it's time for her to get it. I plan to be very friendly and help in any way I can. I will move about 45 minutes away....just far enough to not be immediatelly available. I need to accept what is going on and accept my W's decision. Again you guys are right. I need to continue to work on myself and be as pleasant as possible when I have the opportunity of being with my W. Obviously I will see her less, however, when i do see her, i will have to be on my best behaviour. Will this turn things around for us...only God knows. In the words of my W, if it is meant to be, we will get back together...... Thank you all for your support. By the way, strangely enough, there is not as much pain as there used to be. Maybe it will intensify or maybe I am lovingly detaching or maybe I think my W will come running back to me once I leave (yeah right).
