Wow, I see a lot of positives in your post. I think you're trying to look for negatives in what's been happening lately. A family day at the beach, H asking you to come to his hockey game a ILY call. Lots of good things there girl.
I think if H was still seeing OW he wouldn't have asked you to come to his game, he wouldn't want the drama of both of you there. Him wanting you there I think was to share some of the old times and to show you off to the guys. I told you he was noticing the glammed up you! I also don't think he wanted you at the game to degrade you, I think it was maybe a statement that he's with you again. I know it must b frustrating when he withdraws after some reconnection, but that's what I've read about MLC. They'll poke their head out of the tunnel and retreat. The times they come out will be longer and longer. Don't get frustrated because it's taking him so long. He has to go through it at his pace. If you try to push to make it happen faster he'll retreat.
As far as my sitch, now I have to go to physical therapy and cardiac therapy. My shoulders been bothering me since surgery, family doc thinks I have a torn rotator cuff, sucks for me. Getting a MRI tomorrow and he ordered 6 weeks of therapy and will re-evaluate. Mon, Wed and Fri will be go to work, physical therapy 4:30 to 5:30 cardiac therapy 6 to 7, home, eat dinner, shower then it's bed time. What a hectic schedule.
Remember to have Patience.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26
