Hi, John. Sorry I have not been on the boards in a while. I just came by to check on you. Seems as if things have taken a turn for the worst for you and your family. I really do not know what to say except that I am praying for you and know your pain. I have been in your shoes - in many ways still am.
I think Phil is out of pocket or you would have certainly heard from him by now.
Have you talked to a DB coach? They are kind of costly, but very good. Maybe that would help.
Your wife is terribly confused. I don't think she knows what she wants. I know this doesn't help you at all. She sounds very like my first husband. It wasn't until he knew that he lost me that he decided he wanted me. I have given you this advice before, I think, but when you move out, if you move out, start doing something different - go to school - take a course - learn something. Be happy and let her see someone she really would like to be with. Don't give up on your marriage if you do move out. It really sounds as if she still loves you.
