I am trying to be positive in every sense, not just as an act. I do feel like I have made a lot of positive changes in my life, which I think H has seen hopefully, though he tends to focus more on anything negative I do or even if anything negative happens blaming me, rather than on anytning positive which I am doing.
I would be sad if H moved out, but it would also be somewhat of a relief not to have a husband/dad who has a girlfriend/in love with OW. If he moves out though I think I will try to be as positive about it as I can be, and tell him I hope he will be happy, but he is always welcome to return if he is not, as that is how I feel right now. I am wondering if it might almost be good for him to live with or spend a lot more with OW and maybe he will see that I am a good woman/wife/mom with space/distance. If he returns, it would be if he ends that relationship I would think, and it would be better/healthier for me anyway, probably the whole family. So I am trying to look at the positives if H moves out. Karen43
