Aussie Girl stuggling with MLC Husband

[One Day]

Hey Essie!

Fantastic news. Sounds like you DBed like a pro. It's fantastic to hear that H has been missing you and thinking about you- definitely an excellent baby step. I don't think you should worry about not smiling when you're trying to be sympathetic- I can imagine that would have been hard!

And he said he had had a weird few days and was missing my family and thinking about me (he saw my Dad yesterday) and even missing my sisters dog. I said that the dog probably missed him too.

A master stroke of genius. Love that the dog probably missed him too (but might not have?!). Brilliant!

Now I know that that sounds good that he was worried about me, but at the time when he was saying that I was thinking that it sounded final. Like he's worried how I'm going to cope without him forever.

I don't think this is necessarily something to worry about. He is worried about you, so he is thinking about you. In the Art of Seduction, it says that a common mistake people make is to assume that they are not affecting the other person, whereas what is actually needed is persistence and patience to have an effect. You are affecting your H without even speaking to him- that is an excellent result!!

I was trying to be a bit mysterious, but I dont think it worked, I think I just sounded boring... I need specific help on this.

I'm not sure I can provide very specific help on this, as I often think I sound boring when I'm talking to my H, but I wouldn't be so sure that your holding back a little didn't work- H might very well now be thinking 'Hmmmm, Essie didn't say much. I wonder what she's been up to? Maybe I should call and find out'. Would it be worth giving it some time before making a change? As someone who is excellent at talking about herself, my advice if you want to talk more and listen less would be to just jump in there and go for it! (Joking of course- 2 ears, 1 mouth= listen twice as much as speaking!!)

Apart from having a hunky semi-naked guy answer the door next time H makes contact how can I make him feel like I'm moving on and happy so that he isnt worried about me and he has to start to chase me?

LOL! Give H some time- he will notice your changes slowly but surely, especially as it sounds like you've moved on already, and you were so positive in your DBing yesterday. Oh, but I would love to see the look on H's face if he did get greeted by a hunky semi-naked guy next time he visits!!

Brilliant news about the contact Essie- I can't wait for the next installment.