I'm going to focus on other goals for ME part 3!!!

[AmyC]

BND, how did your H react when you went NC?

You like horror stories, Dar?
Cuz you will love BNDs.

What made him shake out of this?

Time, BND shutting up and working on herself instead of pining away over him must have sure made the time pass quicker. And that's what it takes to shake 'em, Dar.

TIME.

Now exactly which part of that have you not already been told?



Hey, is this post "solution-oriented"? .



JUST KIDDING, SG

[Maya44]

((((AMY))))!!!!!!!!!

[AmyC]

Dar, they don't all get "shaken" out of this- which actually reminds me of something I once heard - it is from the bible: All that can be shaken WILL be shaken.

But I digress...

Anyway, for those that do come out, life has more of a funny way about the process. Mostly it bounces you a few times on your head to get the marbles rollin' then it tosses you out of the MLC tunnel on your ass. I'm telling you this though, as long as you are doing anything that can be remotely construed to be being in your husbands face, he will be running in the opposite direction. You CAN'T shake him. You will NOT break him so you'd best get to the business of making sure this doesn't break you and that entails 1) getting a life and 2) getting your head out of his butt.

This IS solution oriented, too.
Because the solution to these troubles is that you stand up on your own two feet, learn grace and the ability to stuff a sock in it and that's in addition to holding your head up high and discovering that you are worth something without him and you will go on if he chooses to keep it that way and if he does, that is his cross to bear. Learn to love yourself, Dar. By any means necessary. Otherwise, he won't see a person that he can love.

It's starts with you.

And it doesn't matter if you like it or not or if you think it's fair.

This is how it is.

[Maya44]

I read everything you just said Amy and you are ABSOLUTELY correct on this! It's true, whether you've been through MLC or not....I need to work on loving me more and living life for me and D first!

Thank you EVERYONE!!!!

[AmyC]

The rerun will air next week.

Same time.

Same channel.

Unless Dar finally get's it, that is.

[Maya44]

Just kidding, I'm not mad at all.

[Jeanette1120]

The rerun will air next week.

Same time.

Same channel.

Unless Dar finally get's it, that is.

Air.....I need air........gasp

[Maya44]

BTW, Amy, check your email.

[brandnewday]

My New Favorite Song


My Husband told me today that this song reminds him of me.

Just thought I would share.....

Dar, on days like this it is so hard to believe that my Husband was totally looney tunes a couple of years ago....

[Jeanette1120]

I agree BND...

Who would have thunk that 2.4 years later..without any prompting from me...Rich is now calling me, now texting me and today, asked me out on a date for Thursday!

Yes...

There is a method to our madness.