Cat,
Expect nothing from him. He is off his rocker right now. He can come back from this craziness, but for now you need to stay away. He is spinning out of control. Stay away from his cyclone.

He is lying to everyone around him. He is probably lying to himself. All you can do is let him spin. When he really hits bottom, he can start to work his way up. And even then, there will be backslides.

Your H is up to no good right now. I don't think he knows how to handle himself. Let him go emotionally.


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track