My H is the same in a lot of ways. Always looking to get the most with the least time/effort. And definitely competitive and jealous of other's success. It all stems from his own insecurities. There are a lot of days where I think about how his father treated H and feel sorry for him. I totally understand how that could leave him with a lot of insecurities and fears of abandonment. But they are his issues, and I can't fix them for him.
It would be so nice if we could just kiss them and make it all better. If only life were so easy.
Good luck doing your taxes. You know about militaryonesource.com right? You can free e-file using TaxCut by H&R block this year if you log in through there. I think you're still eligible since he was in the AF until very recently.
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