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[Dom R]

Sounds like you have found a great attitude very nice.

The biggest potential problem I can think of, is that she might not know what you need to work on in some areas, yet you still need to work on them.. but you dont realize it either!

So if you havent already, now would be a good time to scour a few books for things along the lines of general "common negative behaviours of husbands towards their wives", and see if any fit you.

The "dont validate their views", is one of the "common" ones, hence why that one just jumped out at me when you described it.
(I also need some work in that area myself )