for the past weeks I've been doing just that, setting myself up for disappointment each time I expected him to act normal or do things the way I thing they ought to. He actually called later this am and apologized for raising his voice (gasp! he hasn't done that in ...wow, dont' remember!) and we talked a bit. I think this friend thing is the right way to go, and it didnt' hurt that I didn't jump up and accused him as soon as he stepped into the door, I asked questions and watched my tone/speed of my voice, it would've been easy to start getting defensive the way he was talking to me, but in the end he actually realized he was wrong by yelling and said sorry.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
