I hope your D is feeling better. I really can't believe the selfishness of some of these mlc-ers. I guess I should be lucky that my H is not selfish in that way. It is only me that has to put up with his selfishness since no one else close to him knows anything. Well I guess the OW has to put up with his indecision as well - too bad for her!
Your H is saying he is done, but his actions sure aren't consistent with that (no filing, not taking his clothes). It seems like you do serve as some kind of security to him. IMO, I wouldn't take that away from him right now by telling him to take his clothes. Be the lighthouse!
Nature Girl M 40 H 40 M 15, T 19 D11 S9 bomb 3/07 (MOW)
