My h is not with me...or with OW. He and I have both agreed that he needs to get over her and get himself some help before he and I would ever be able to work on things. He is finally attempting to do so. He has said that he wants to work on things with me, but not until he gets his head on straight. So, do I try to go back to being semi dark? Talking only kid stuff. No answering texts like "Good Morning" "how is your day?" Do I ignore? DO I just reply and leave it at that? Today it has gone like this....He called the kids to wish them a good day. He texted me about an hour later saying good morning. I waited about an hour to text him back. I just said good morning. Then around lunch time today he asked how my day was going? I said Fine. I also asked him to call me when he got a sec. He did. I told him our Daughter has an open house tonight to greet teachers and get a progress report. He has the kids tonight so I wanted him to know and if he was to go, I would go along, since I missed the last one. He said he didnt want to go, last time it was crazy and he preferred not to go. I told him that was fine, she didnt have to go. So, I said ok and he thanked me for letting him know and I said good bye.
THat has basically been it today. I feel that is the way it should be. I dont want to be rude and not respond to a hello. I am giving him time and space. Should I go darker? Should I keep it friendly and ask occasionally how he is?
Just wondering.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
