Thanks, Dom! I won't be surprised if she doesn't want to "work on it together", but I will give her the opportunity. And the opportunity to say what she would like to see. There may be good stuff come out of that, or there maybe "I don't know" and grunts. But it all has meaning. The biggest problem I can see in this plan is the possibility of a continuation of the status quo, with no input from her. But, in a way, that is a vote from her. Then, I do the best I can, based on what I do know, and see what happens. And she will know that I want things to change. She can do as she chooses with that info, we'll see where it takes us.
