I thought that we established the control issues a longtime ago. I think that you handle her perfectly and the only way possible for you. Although that may also be adding to her frantic text messaging. It's just so sad that she uses the boys to get to you when she doesn't think she has your attention. I guess that kind of answers how much she took from counceling huh?
Hang in there, she has to get tired and move on at somepoint. It's sad to think that there is some unsuspecting guy out there who could be her next victim!
