Yea, I'm not religious at all, but I never got why sex is HORRIBLE and the worst thing ever. It's drilled into your heads, no mb, no sexy thoughts, stuff like that. But then BAM, you get married and everything that has been drilled into your head should just go away. Sex is the best, it's great, everyone should do it. I think it would be hard to flip that switch all of a sudden.
I have had a difficult time "flipping that switch." As a young adult, I was very much into the purity movement. I remained a virgin until I was married, wore a purity ring, carried a purity card, etc. I was very outspoken about my choice to remain a virgin until I was married because of Biblical principals. On my wedding night after sex I went into the bathroom and cried because I was mourning the loss of my virginity....serious as stupid as that sounds now, it was a big deal to me at that time. It has been very difficult for me to open sexually to my husband. In a way I regret waiting until marriage so that it wouldn't seem so scary to me. All of this has caused a lot of strife in my M. Just yesterday my H asked me if I even know how to please a man....obviously I don't because I don't have that experience.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
