I won't say it. I have resisted thus far and will continue to do so.

I did accuse and confront her awhile back, when I found out for sure about om from his wife. And that was not something I will do again. I have had no contact with om's wife and don't want any.

I read quite a bit on your thread bomb. How are things going for you, some of the situations you described were like you had a hidden camera in my living room...