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I am thinking about asking her if I can sleep in her room soon. Waht do you think?
NO!!!! DON'T DO IT!!!

It is like "asking" for sex...one of the most needy things that we, as men, can do.

Continue to play it cool. Act as if you are fine with the way things are.

If you grasp onto the very first glimmer of hope, (which I think you are doing), you will hurt your chances incredibly.

Wait until you are SURE that the tide has turned, before doing anything like this. When she wants you in her bed, she will ask you or drop a hint.

Sorry to be so blunt.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!