I'm like a kid I love getting mail especially when this one will help me get over the bumps and brusis.
I will start immediately, and hopefully, the brain will suck everything up although lately I forget my name.
I was reading some of Holly's older posts and they are helping me out also.
I would like to know what LBS do when S is set up to leave but it will take a month, like for me.
How do you stand it being in the same house knowing they are leaving and have to pack?
He has already been in the house 1 year since the bomb and this is really just torture on my soul.
It's like having 3 different bombs.
1st...well that was obvious ILYBINILWY 2nd...buying house and knowing moving date and all the packing in between 3rd...moving date
It feels like a slow torture.
I'm planning about how me and my S will be living upstairs and that somewhat keeps my mind on other things.
I'm really tring to keep a PMA and not mope arolund.
H is on the afternoon shift which really helps. Peace and quiet at night with no tension in the house.
I want to keep DBing while he is gone and I don't know how to start because when he gets the lawyer stuff and gets my financial statement he's going to get all u-g-l-y and spew.
Not looking forward to that.
Hopefully it is when he is in the other house.
But then again he still will have to pay the bills here AND there until the finances are settled. Maybe that will help him to speed things up and not fight.
E
"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"
you're a sweetheart.
