She started crying and said she didn't know which one of us to believe or who's side to be on. I told her that she doesn't EVER need to choose sides, that we both love her and she loves both of us and that is all she needs to do. Nobody wants her to choose a side.
Excellent answer.
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I told her that I heard ow tell her that I left her dad too. And that is not true. I did tell her that I don't know what STBX has told ow so perhaps she believes this all but that no, it is not true.
Again excellent answer. She need sto hear your side. it would be nice if both parents could sit down and explain to the children the TRUTH. But you know that is hard to do for MLCers.
Poor D9 -she is confused. I wish he would not allow OW to talk to her about anything.
I think there should be a boundary there. I think you need to tell H that you would appreciate it if only you and him should talk to Ds about your situation. It is inappropiate.
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They had so much fun. I really am glad they did but it is like a great big party every time they see him now. At least he did do things with them. Things I always asked him to do with us and he wouldn't. Grrr.
That is his guilt .let him. It will wear off. One day h left a tv for D7 at the doorstep. HELLLOOOOOO!!!!!!
I am pretty sure it will al backfire on them . Don't you worry. you are doing good. Just love your kids and let OW and H dig their own holes..as they are.
