Hi I used to winder the sane was or MLC but the remedy is ther same let him go when he visits be upbeat and positive thank him for little things he does try to not react to his selfishness and new lifestyle its hard and gets easier over time grieve and heal yourslef..this is a pretty tramatic experience and your process will take time be with D keep posting seek couselor id you can it helps peace
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