H never came back from Iraq, part 3

[MichelleLT]

CA does not have any minimum separation time unfortunately. It just takes longer and costs more if we do the "real" D in court.

I looked it up online, you can file a 1040X for up to 3 years after. So all we have to do is do that, and I would be willing to do the work. He'd get that $600 he's so needing on time, I'd do the work on the refile, get the money direct deposited to me, and send him whatever extra he gets, approx $200. I don't see how that's a bad solution at all. Hopefully he'll agree.

I am also glad he has a job. I kinda wanted to ask why he's been looking for so long because he's always been the type to get any job if he needs it, but it sounds like he was being really picky about where he applied and that's why it took so long. He always used to say he's never looked for work for more than 3 days, it was something he was proud of. So in a way I'm happy for him, and on the other hand I'm not terribly sympathetic to the financial plight he put himself in because it's his spending and not getting a job that put him there.

Yeah, some of it with IM is definitely overlap. And I type faster than him since he never took a typing class and doesn't really touch type. But by the third time I responded to nearly the same question I was just like, huh?

He has always, verbally, maintained that he will never do anything to hurt me, but that this is necessary. Of course, we all know how well that really works since of course he's hurting me, a lot.