John, maybe its time to get assertive and put the house up for sale, assuming that would be a better option for you in the event of a D than risking her living in it and jeopardizing your share of it as well as custody of D7. You may not end up selling it in the end for various reasons, not the least of which is the housing market is down. Otherwise you could be enabling her nonsense.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread