My WAW was brutally angry and did some hateful things such as keeping 5D from me as scheduled x-mas eve/x-mas morning. I think it is like venting their anger for whatever they perceive is your faults. Maybe just simply trying to be as ugly as they can to you to justify their choice. It really isn't about you. I recall the last time my WAW was just ridiculously angry/yelling on the phone...I just held phone at arm reach away from my ear. When she was done I just called her on it, "why are you so angry, all I am doing is seeing when 5D will be here x-mas" as calm and polite as possible. She was angry for about 3 months but I'd get calmer as she got louder and that is gone now.
I guess I am saying it will pass. I always felt like my WAW released her anger through putting everything in her name, new car, hollering at me etc...only so long they can do it when you are kind to them and never argue with them. They can't argue if you don't allow it.
