She tells me that she loves me, wants to be friends but doesn't want to be married anymore. She did admit to having an EA with OM. She says that is not physical, but that she would like to go out on a date with him. So it's going to go that way.
She also repeated twice that this is not a mid-life crisis.
We talked quite a bit, I told her that I am having a hard time with her being around this guy, she said she understood.
I feel like I should just let her go and be with this guy, cuz the more I resist the more attractive he looks to her. But I just can't seem to get there.