hey guys, thanks for your words. I will never agree to him taking cash just like that anymore, it's either a check for the intended purpose or I'll go with him to make whatever purchased is needed. He says he told his room mate not to tell anyone he's been living there and that he had taken 2 days off 'cause he wasn't feeling well (and that it wasn't any of my business). His mom says he told he found his phone 3 days ago but he still says he hasn't and has no idea why she'd say such a thing, told coworker who called last night over the phone that he still doesnt' have a phone.
ANYWAYS, indeed, I told him it was none of my business where he stayed and what he did, that I had no wish of knowing and that he was free to make his own decisions, but that if it had to do with money I was contributing to that I needed to make sure it went where it was intended. He's very arrogant right now, raised his voice a few times, and I want nothing from him right now, I'll leave him to his craziness.
So that's the drama of the weekend, the bottom line is my kids had a good weekend, we have all our needs covered and we'll be fine thank God.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.