Yeah disrupting 7D is a definitely realizing what she is doing. However, legally I recall this is actually a point against you when it comes to custody issues because of that very idea. Legally they will want to do as little as possible to disrupt, in my words, "what has been". Something to consider...
Early on I did just about anything to make WAW easy and to not make her anger/aggrevated...You need to consider if the house thing is what you want. Don't lose what you need while she is so confused. Don't be her doormat. Don't make her angry either...fine line..
