That su&ks. I'm sorry to hear that there may be another set of shoes in the closet. All you can do is detach and worry about you. The two hardest things to do in this situation, but there really is no other way. You are over a year into this. I think you and I ae the only nes here from that time period. I can still remember writing to your posts, as I drank several beers every might in my dumpster-garage apartment, and I've been out of there for 14 months. Boy, this is hard for all of us.