Yep, I agree that he needed time alone instead of with OW. He actually kept saying he just needed to be alone...I kept reminding him that he wasn't alone if he was living with OW.
I guess the adjustment from military life to civilian life is hard for him. He thought it would be SO easy because he hated being in the AF. He thought civilian life would be a cake walk. I think he is just seeing that there are different problems, and he does miss the stability of the AF. It is weird to think of life in the military as stable, but as far as the money and what he was expected to do.
So the manager at the restaurant told him he could work doubles so he could get his training over with quicker and start getting tips. He said no thanks. So, instead he just goes in for like 4 hours a day. I am not sure what the deal is, but he really needs to find some motivation.
I don't think I have mentioned this but the restaurant he is working at is the same place we both worked at almost 8 years ago when we started dating. I wonder if it triggers memories when he goes in there.