You are right about the complete detaching. I just really have no problem with seeing him anymore, he doesn't ruin my day.
It's like just seeing my kids dad. I don't act different, I answer my phone, I talk to my friends in front of him, I don't change anything.
Unlike him that makes sure his phone is off, when he comes in. Or leaves his phone in the car. He asks a million questions, I don't ask anything, I already know the answer.
I am divorced, and feel divorced. I want to have an R with him at least on my part, that is not weird. Or I can't be in the same room with him
I could very easily introduce him to someone i start to date.
I try to forgive him everyday, I don't want to be bitter I don't want to hate him
For me, for my children.
Things will fall into place, I have faith in it.
Last edited by Lissie; 02/19/0801:37 PM.
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