Thanks guys.
Barb

You are right about the complete detaching. I just really have no problem with seeing him anymore, he doesn't ruin my day.

It's like just seeing my kids dad. I don't act different, I answer my phone, I talk to my friends in front of him, I don't change anything.

Unlike him that makes sure his phone is off, when he comes in. Or leaves his phone in the car.
He asks a million questions, I don't ask anything, I already know the answer.

I am divorced, and feel divorced. I want to have an R with him at least on my part, that is not weird. Or I can't be in the same room with him

I could very easily introduce him to someone i start to date.

I try to forgive him everyday, I don't want to be bitter I don't want to hate him

For me, for my children.

Things will fall into place, I have faith in it.




Last edited by Lissie; 02/19/08 01:37 PM.

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