In my case, my in-laws were offering to help pay off the mortgage and helped out whenever they could. They still think she made the biggest mistake of her life. When I moved out here last month, they helped pack up the truck and gave me money for gas.
"I made the wall of shadow draw back, beyond desire and act, I walked on.
Oh flesh, my own flesh, woman whom I loved and lost, I summon you in the moist hour, I raise my song to you."