WOW !!! So many things to say..Essie I feel so emotional for you, this is amazing news!! I dont blame you for sounding cautious, but really, it all sounds BRILLIANT !!! He is missing you !!! Thats incredible. Dont worry about being not so interesting, he wasnt calling for a low down of your life, he was calling as a first step toward you, I'm sure? I also didnt say stuff on the phone, but you told me to just leave the bike lying around I think..sure enough, when my BF came by, he saw it and I think that had more of a powerful effect on him than me just reeling off all the great new things I had been doing...as I bet it would have gone in one ear and out the other! I bet you will get chance to casually tell him stuff about your fab new life when you SEE HIM ! He said he was going to come round and get the photos - YAY! He hasnt fogotton the photos! I know you were upset about that stuff. Amaazing ! Also, you said..
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Now I know that that sounds good that he was worried about me, but at the time when he was saying that I was thinking that it sounded final. Like he's worried how I'm going to cope without him forever. He did say he wanted to stay in touch more. And he was hoping to come over in a few weeks time to copy some digital photos.
That really doesnt sound to me like the conversation of someone who is thinking of D (which is I guess what you meant), sounds like someone who wants to make a step toward you? Why would he say he wants to stay in touch more and misses you and your Dad and the dog even (!), if he was moving on with his life and wants a D??You will have to wait and see of course what happens next, but it sounds exactly what you were hoping for! I'M SO PLEASED FOR YOU!!! Sorry to shout, but I am. Anyway, how did you leave it with him at the end of the conversation? You didnt say - did he promise to call again?
