If you want a shot at making your marriage work, do not mention lawyers! Clearly that is not where you want to go so do not drive the bus there.
Yes, this is very unfair!It really is impossible for the LBS to relate to the WAS. You must realize that your H is not thinking as clearly or logical as you. You are focused on your family, he is focused on himself. Don't blame yourself.
Based upon your post, if you have not already done so, I strongly recommend that you see a board certified psychiatrist. He/She can help you through this very difficult time. They can also prescribe meds that will help ease the anxiety, allow u to get a good night's sleep and avoid depression. Depression is a disease that sneaks up on you, don't let it happen. Your kids need you to be in a good place.
I can totally relate to your sitch. My daughter was one of the happiest kids on the planet. Today it is up and down. Some days she is herself, other days she is very sad. It breaks my heart and I want to fix this for her now!
