Yeah, on second look, I really didn't mean don't care in a reckless, sorched earth policy, I think I just meant the opposite of hanging on every word I write or say, or taking 25 minutes to write and rewrite an email, so it is vanilla and doesn't offend even in the slightest.
It's the difference of walking with confidence, and looking for the glint of the sun off of a command wire with every step you take, not wanting to set off the "Improvised Spouse Device" that the wire is attached to!
