Today my W and I had a MC session. For the most part it went alright. I arrived about ten minutes later than my W did. She was already in the office and talking to our C about how I would like to see another C. She told him how I asked her to go see another C with me. I corrected her and said I was going to see my own MC and that she may be asked to come to a few sessions. Our MC was for me going to see someone else. My W didn't feel like talking. She was quiet and short with her answers. Then she started going on about how I accumulate too much stuff in the house; which is not true. As I listened I said I would take the blame for all the clutter. Then my W talked more about how much junk had accumulated throughout the years.
Then our MC suggested that I help my W clean. I was fine with it but she told him she doesn't like cleaning with me. She's afraid I'm going to want save all the junk we're throwing away. I told her that I threw away alot of stuff and that there's more I could go through.
Then our MC wanted us to arrange a time to go over our financial plans. The idea I pitched to both of them during the last session.
This was the first time our MC had put any pressure on my W. He insisted we talk about our finacial plans. I think he just really wanted us to go out and talk about something.
