You said that Retrouvaille isn't religious, is that true? My husband and I are both atheists. My husband is pretty adamant about staying away from religious things, though I'm more open to them because I just sift out what I want. Not, of course, that my husband is anywhere near doing something like this, but you never know if that will change. I also like your approach of doing it in order to have the divorce go more smoothly.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09