W not angry any more and wants to work on the M

[Lanzo]

Hi hopeforfuture,

When I tried for some R talk last week I asked W what is it she thought we as a couple were doing. Her reply was "We're starting our M from scratch, seeing if we can make a go of things". However she did say she didn't want any outside help. I told her I that althought this is the way she wants to do things at some stage in the future we would have to address all of the difficult subjects that she's not ready to deal with yet.

So at the moment we are taking things day by day but sooner or later I will need to "heal the hurt" by revisiting and clearing up our past difficulties. But I can only do this when she is ready.


Lan