I think if Choc was here he would say, why are you protecting them! They made their bed!
On the other hand, I understand. Everyone in my family thinks the world of my H. I wouldn't want them to think bad of him either.
We are just TOO NICE. Too compassionate. Our hearts are too big. Shoot, I don't even like to kill bugs.
So, LWB, good luck with your mom. That's one thing I didn't have to deal with. My immediate family (parents and sisters) knows what he's done, but they still act ok towards him. My H couldn't believe that at first. He kept asking, are you sure they know?
I am going to make a plan for kids.. something special (not Disney... i wish!) Have a great time with nice sunshine! uuu, I miss green on the ground. I don't want any more snow.
Beauty
Me:31 H:29 D:7 S:2 M:7y Together:8y found out his A :07/07 bomb:11/01/07 s: 11/15/07 OW-1 is out of state; other female friends around first thread
I am envious of your trip to WDW. I want to take my two S's there, and the absolute earliest would be this fall, maybe. But it looks like any available funds to support such a trip are likely to be eaten up by the L's.
Thanks nocode. I just saw your other post about your W being out this weekend. I wonder what these people think, when my H, 35 yrs old, hangs out with them (most are in their 20's and single, and btw approved of his R with OW, knowing he was married). Its funny, because I don't want to be out there at bars, etc. I would rather be home with my kids. But my H makes me feel boring and lame because I choose to be home.
And yes, I would love to see you in Orlando, that would be a great place for a DB get together.
PS: Fall would be a GREAT time for you and your sons to visit Orlando. Look at the disney site now, register, and they'll start sending your great package prices/dates.
H and I got into a tiff this morning. We both assumed the other would be picking up D3. I have lunch plans (I am still trying Hope, I'll text you...) and he has whatever plans (I don't know, and don't ask). I got frustrated at first and he reacted to my stress. Yucky. I decided to 'high road' it, I nicely apologized, and will find myself (hopefully) a sitter for D3 and go on with my day. I am tired of my plans not being as important as trying to stay young and act single.
I am not going to let it bother me (on the outside LOL) and just let him be, let him do what he needs, and go about life. I am trying my hardest to stay his friend for the D, and I will do just that.
Morning lwb. Sorry to hear he's still being a pain in the @ss. Why is it that his plans are more important than yours....seems like this is happening all too often. The worst is your daughters are the ones losing out...they shouldn't have to be with a sitter...you and him should be able to balance your time away, so they can be with one of you....but it seems like it's always you. I'm headed to training....let me know about lunch...don't worry if you can't make it....D3 is way more important.
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"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
Hope, I have been toying with that all morning. If he is going to be selfish, then I am going to cherish the extra time with D3, rather than get a sitter. We can't balance our time away because H never cares that I have plans. This new H of mine is very selfish that way.
I might have to let you know at the last minute, but if I can't, can you meet tomorrow?
Lwb, I really understand how you feel. My H went out last weekend with bunch of early 20's people. Every weekend is a party day and he goes to bar and after party! Drinking till 4-5 am is usual. On top of that, he goes to his friends' bar 2-3 times a week to 'just have a beer or two.'
And he tells me that I am 'no-fun'. but he is 'no-fun' to anyone around him because he text to someone all day long. Even the time kids are talking, having dinner together and while him giving them bath...
Beauty
Me:31 H:29 D:7 S:2 M:7y Together:8y found out his A :07/07 bomb:11/01/07 s: 11/15/07 OW-1 is out of state; other female friends around first thread
