Now that sounds like a medical test we should all invest money in creating.
As for my H. He said he's been feeling the need to run for a couple of years now. He said that he kept telling himself that he was just tired, stressed, being silly... well all that changed in November. Even leading up to November he seemed aggressive and short with me.. But November I confronted him about why he was avoiding spending any time with me and any time at home w/ our D2. It got so bad that on the few nights he got home at a decent hour he would work out in the basement instead of spending any time with his daughter.
He told me he needed to be selfish and I had to just take it at the end of November... and then for the entire month of December and a good portion of January he was a party animal... I asked him to leave in the New Year because I told him he was being extremely disrespectful to me, our marriage and our family...
During the really bad time, in December.. he told me horrible things like he wasn't sure if what we had was real.. and that when we got married he didn't know if he actually loved me or was just in love with the idea of there being someone who would always be there for him.. He said other completely untrue things.. I can't even remember what they were.. but I was just floored. He retracted all of those nasty things but they are still out there.. and I wonder how his brain could have come up with that stuff.. Which is why I was thinking MLC.
Well he's out of the house.. Has been since January. He still partying but not to the extent that he was (or maybe he's just better at hiding it). He has taken much more of an interest in our D over the last little bit, which is nice, but he has just recently been caught in an affair, by me. He swears that nothing physical has happened yet.. but it confirms for him the fact that he wants to date other people and doesn't feel like he's committed to his commitment anymore... He seems much more in touch with reality these days but maybe it's just a good show... Anyway, this is where I stand!
Is he just a WAS or is he in crisis, I'm not sure I'll ever know.
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