Thanks Brit! I appreciate your advice. Frankly, that's what I was hoping to hear from you all. BUT - how long do I wait before I decide she's coming back?

I don't know if you've read all 7 pages of this thread but we've basically been "broken up" for a whole year. We saw each other once in March 07, once in April 07, 5 times in May 07 (continous phone calls/arguing/trying to work things out). Then I didn't see her physically from late May - late Sept. There were phone calls in June & July then they stopped. At the end of July she said, no more calls. No calls in August or Sept. until she called Sept. 23. Then we dated several times between Sept. 29 & Nov. 2 (probably about 10 times).

I haven't seen her since Nov. 2. We talked on the phone through Nov. then that stopped in Dec. We sent a few text messages through the end of Dec. then she stopped responding. We did send one on Feb. 1 regarding something she had at her house that belonged to me. Sent her a text on Feb. 2 that I didn't need it anymore. She didn't respond and I haven't heard from her since. She didn't even call or text to check on me after tornadoes came through my area (Feb. 5).

How long do I wait? and hope?

Thanks for your input. It's good to hear from someone new.

K