I know you are hurting, but trust me, in time the hurt will pass, you will meet a new girl and you will be very happy. This one is not for you! If you are having these kind of problems now, can you imagine what things would be like if you got married?
Nightmare!
You are the lucky one, her evil side appeared BEFORE you got married. She has done you a huge favor.
For most of us, our spouses changed radically during the marriage. They morph into a completely different person. Most of this is brought on by mid-life crisis, a lack of true family values and an inability to have a long term intimate relationship.
Congratulations Nate --- you will never experience the pain of divorcing Amy.
But I am not minimizing your pain - I understand.
Go have fun
Fish
I really appreciate your support fish...it means a lot and helps me tremendously. I just hope I am not painting Amy in too much of a negative light. I have tried to be as objective as possible and I totally take responsibility for my part in the situation. I am working on myself and will continue to do so...
Maybe I have just been looking at the positives in the relationship and not the negatives....almost the opposite of what she is doing.
Is she really unstable?
Nate
Last edited by nate75; 02/19/0802:12 AM.
Me: 32 X Fiancee: 34 Bomb: 2/5/08 Separated: 2/6/08