I am so happy to have you visit my thread. I'm glad that analogy helped! I think it's interesting that I wasn't able to touch base with those friends until just this week. Maybe this was just the right moment for me to hear their experiences and get that information. I feel really lucky that my friends are so wise and loving and willing to share their experiences...
Yes!! Biking to the grocery store!! Wow, you walk 500 m with your groceries? Do you have massively sexy arm muscles??!! I just got a milk crate and attached it to the back of my rack with zip ties. I fantasize about upgrading to an xtracycle, but it's kind of expensive... maybe later!! But it's a bike where you can put another person on the back, or a cello, surfboard, cart full of groceries (http://www.xtracycle.com)
I found the information you sent me SO helpful. I think it helped me understand my B better, and also I thought was interesting how my chart brought up my relationship with my Mom. I think that is something I am going to percolate on. In terms of a timescale, especially with the latest info from my friends who are current and former WAs, I think spring break is too soon. If I don't hear from him after the 6 month mark then I will start reaching out with small thoughtful gestures. But I think I had a couple big realizations last week that I don't need to control everything. I don't need to plan everything for it to work out. I can just trust and listen to my intuition. *And* if I need guidance to find an especially fortuitous day to reach out, I can consult the dates you sent!
It's funny... when I was in Bali, they have a special cyclical calendar with fortuitous and unfortuitous days to do *everything*. My Balinese dance teacher asked me to go to the temple with her and then pulled out a calendar and started talking about which days were good for that. So even though I'm not familiar with astrology, the idea of alignment makes sense to me.
I am SO HAPPY to hear about everything good that has been happening to you!! (((((ALI))))) TRANSFORMER
