PH, it is a tough situation to have to face in the best of circumstances. Finances is difficult to discuss between spouses even on good terms. I would say that you do not have to "agree" with anything that you do not feel confident with. You can take what he believes to be accurate and reconcile it against any receipts, check stubs, etc.

Chances are that he will be trying to be honest with you but it will be his perception of the finances as he sees them. Try to keep it as non-personal as you can.

And remember, God is the one that is in control in this. Be on His side while you are discussing this and you will be fine.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God