Thanks everyone. His comment touched the very core of my heart and soul.
H got home today and said OW called him and apologized for yesterday. She said to apologize to me, too. She also said she was never touching another drop of booze. I told him she never emailed me like she said she did. He said, of course she didn't, then called her a b!tch. So, LWB you definitely hit the nail on the head that he is seeing her for what she is.