No, I didn't ask, but we did (on his prompting) get into a conversation about our R. Specifically that even though last week he thought he was ready to work on us a little bit, he changed his mind and is not there. He said then that our chance was either "fleeting" or "fleeing," I didn't understand and didn't want to ask! I didn't argue or cry or anything.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09