Oh.. in case you hadn't realized this yet - this is WAY beyond your original question about privacy. You need to get away from the abuse - the affair pales in comparison to the rest of what's happened/happening to you. You've been living it so long you may not see that but I hope we're helping you to realize that it's not normal and it's not OK.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
