Hi Essie! OH MY GOD!!! Thats amazing news !! I checked your sitch as I wondered what had happened lately, as you sound so happy on other peoples threads! I think you should reply soon really...after so many weeks of NC, maybe take this first opportunity on offer? You wouldnt not reply to an old friend for days ?! If he initiates further contact, you could apply DB principles and not be so available then?
I'm not sure of the time there now or when you were planning to call him, but I wish you luck!
Originally Posted By: Essie
DB works. And NC works too. (I know this is so sad, its one tiny little text message, but I literally did a little dance around the room I was so happy - must not get too excited....he could have bad new waiting for me)
I'm not surprised you danced around the room, and I have got equally excited about just as short text messages and they were about bowel movements !! So I dont blame you.
At least you are conscious of not getting too excited. I really hope he wants to have a chat with you, or meet, becuase he has missed you in some way, and that he doesnt have any bad news for you at all. I guess you could do as Jeff advised.. let him lead the tone of the conversation and follow it. But you're such a pro at this DBing and give such good advice on others threads that I bet you are fantastic when you do speak.
Sending you a huge hug!! Cant wait to hear what happened,
