Thank you. I am going to get out I just have to be smart about it. His family lives right behind our house and they watch the house like a hawk. If I go somewhere he knows. I am getting ready to start donating items so they get used to seeing me pack things into the car. Otherwise I'm sure they'd call him and I wouldn't get very far. I never realized they paid that much attention to us until recently during a visit they told him they'd seen a vehicle come by a couple times, and asked about a delivery of a new gas tank. Guess they don't have anything better to do. I also learned they listen in to my phone conversations which are few and quite boring through their scanner. It's just too bizarre to comprehend to tell you the truth.
Anyways, if I go around "acting" happy the kids and I aren't in any immediate danger. It's when we leave that things will get ugly. He's barely here anyways these days. I'm just going to be smart and cautious so nothing bad happens.
Originally Posted By: GoingForward
Oh my god.
CrystalBlue,
PLEASE get out of there. I, for one, would never tell anyone to give up on their M, but my lord. The dead cats thing?!! That is a prelude for horrific violence to come. I've read and heard that animal abuse is very often a precursor to violence against people, as your H's statements about being able to hide bodies.....I am just so very sorry and scared for you and your family.
There has got to be help somewhere nearby. If you feel you can't go to the proper authorities, what about getting in contact with a local church? Some kind of support group? People will help if you ask for it.
