What's even more messed up is I completing understand what you mean about you hating anyone who will think ill of your H.. isn't that freakin messed up!! and Im not in therapy!
I am extremly protective of him (from my mother that is) but only because she always puts me in that position.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.